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For instance, he hasn't said the L word yet (and I'm confused, because from time to time, I do get the vibe that he does love me from the way he looks at me and the way he takes cares of me). I asked him while we were on vacation around 3 month into our relationship if he loved me, he said he thought so.
Then I asked why he hasn't said the L word yet, he said he isn't ready and that saying the L word is a huge deal for him.
I may not even have thought of this as a problem if (hypothetically) we live together.
But when I'm alone, I think about us often and focus on the big picture, and rather unfortunately, I realized that some crucial elements from this relationship are missing.
Instead of seeing the person objectively, you see them for who you want them to be. The Frisky: 10 best tips for dating online With all the disappointments that can come along with dating, I say why bother getting yourself in a tizzy about someone who could be a Russian spy?I think that saying "I love you" is just a phrase, and people get too hung up on it.Six months is a very short time in a relationship, you're still getting to know each other.He would only say it when he is absolutely certain that he is in love, and his definition of love is that he has to prioritize the other person's happiness above his own.
(Personally I think his definition is a little bit strict, but I suppose I can understand) He says that at the moment he's not concerned about whether we are in love, all he cares about is that we spend a lot of time together.
Your object of desire is laden with fantasies and projections. That's why I always say to myself, to my friends, and to you, single people, check in after three months and tell me how great the new person you're dating is.