Dating for disfigured
There are some men who lose their erections because of depression, and others lose the capacity to fantasize. One man who had become disabled after a road accident slept with a wig on his pillow to try and help him feel he had a partner when he was in bed.
One good recommendation is a lovely striptease show to brighten spirits and put you in the mood.
• Looking at beautiful erotic pictures in books and magazines or online, or looking a seedy porn pictures, whatever is your thing.
• Hiring a sex worker — definitely the ultimate extravagance and potentially the most enjoyable of all.