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So I'm coming out of a two-year relationship with a guy who definitely had commitment-phobe tendencies.I was his first long-term relationship (in our 30s) and before me he had dated a string of women who he abruptly left when he "lost interest".If a guy walks away when you get close (emotionally) ---- and only returns when you back off ----- he just ain't that in to you. Either way --- it isn't going to miraculously turn into a relationship. This was your first and biggest clue that sooner or later when he "lost interest" in you he'd withdraw and eventually end things.Because it should have told you this, here was someone who couldn't sustain interest and who wouldn't do the hard work to do so.
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Past behavior is also a very good predictor of future behavior unless the person has gotten therapy or done some other sort of life-changing drastic activity or change.Then seek a man who treats you like that consistently and over time without fail. Remember that you burned them and freed yourself from them.