Sad online dating stories
However, the most cautious of them try to win your confidence first. Some scammers contact a lot of men and reply all of them, while some are more selective and focus only on one at a time.
First, he bought a timeshare and a truck without discussing it with me. At first I thought it was depression; we'd both turned 40 a few weeks before. One night he didn't come back from happy hour until the next morning. Now we've both moved on--and he's apologized--but at the time it was very painful. I really resented being put in that position and I resented some of my friends, who just couldn't fathom what it was like, regardless of how hard they tried.
She had all the necessary documents but she didn’t have enough money to pay for a visa. A day before the departure date, she called me begging to send ,000 which she needed to prove her financial capacity. I knew her family is not very wealthy, so I felt bound to help. My scammer wasn’t very careful and I figured her (them) out very quickly but I wanted to have fun so I decided to observe her (their) further actions. I’m sure that was a team of scammers who worked shifts so I chatted with all of them.
I sent her €2,500 and since then have never heard of her. First, I thought my online mate had a bad memory, but then it appeared to me that each time I communicated with a different person.
They focus on one man but diligently reply to all messages, elicit more details, make good conversations. Usually, excuses are similar – money she needs to buy a ticket to fly to you, visa expenses, a sick relative, etc. A scammer will receive money and then will come up with a new financial problem and ask for money again.
It will sound so plausible that the man will surely help his online girlfriend. At this stage, some scammers will try to get out of the relationship gradually. If a man really fell for that girl, it can be heart-breaking for him to realize that she just used him as a wallet.However, there isn’t a site that would be totally secured against scammers.